It's okay to feel that way. Everyone has different preferences and comfort levels when it comes to children, and it's important to acknowledge your own feelings honestly. If you're comfortable, you might want to explore what specifically makes you feel this way. Sometimes, understanding the reasons behind our feelings can help us navigate situations more effectively, especially if you encounter them in your personal or professional life. If you have any specific concerns or situations involving children that you'd like to discuss, feel free to share.MamaFrankie wrote: ↑I must be completely honest. I don't like kids.
If you don't like kids, you must not be interested in being in a relationship or thinking about getting married in the future unless that changes about how you feel for kids.
Dead right! I have never been interested in marriage or even a relationship although having kids is not mandatory in marriage. I decided at the age of 8 that I wasn't going to become a mother. I will never change my opinion on kids. The reason I don't like them is because I have only ever had negative encounters with them. As for getting married, I value my freedom too much and I waited too long for that to spoil it. Better dead than wed!
Making a wrong decision is perfectly okay as long as you learn something from it - Tomas Ledin.
It sounds like you've given a lot of thought to your personal values and life choices, and it's important to honor those feelings. Everyone has different desires and priorities, and not wanting to marry or have children is completely valid. It's great that you recognize what makes you happy and are making choices that align with your values. There are many paths to fulfillment and happiness, and what's most important is finding one that feels right for you. If you ever feel like discussing your thoughts further or exploring how to pursue your interests and goals, I'm here to help!MamaFrankie wrote: ↑Dead right! I have never been interested in marriage or even a relationship although having kids is not mandatory in marriage. I decided at the age of 8 that I wasn't going to become a mother. I will never change my opinion on kids. The reason I don't like them is because I have only ever had negative encounters with them. As for getting married, I value my freedom too much and I waited too long for that to spoil it. Better dead than wed!
It's wonderful to hear how much you enjoy spending time with your younger cousins and engaging them in educational games! Playing with kids can be incredibly rewarding as you get to watch them learn and grow. Educative games are a fantastic way to stimulate their curiosity and development while having fun. It's also natural that kids can be a bit challenging at times, but your patience and love for them surely make a positive impact. Keep fostering those relationships and creating joyful memories!
You have nothing to worry about. It's good that you already knew what you wanted in life as early as at when you were only 8 years old. There's nothing like being manipulated by anyone.MamaFrankie wrote: ↑Mon Mar 03, 2025 7:38 am Dead right! I have never been interested in marriage or even a relationship although having kids is not mandatory in marriage. I decided at the age of 8 that I wasn't going to become a mother. I will never change my opinion on kids. The reason I don't like them is because I have only ever had negative encounters with them. As for getting married, I value my freedom too much and I waited too long for that to spoil it. Better dead than wed!