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    It seems the value of the marriage institution has been eroded with the frequent divorce cases we now hear among people that had been married. The rate of divorce is so high now that people are just asking a newly married couple "when"?

    With this high divorce rate, do you still believe in the institution of marriage?
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    King Belieal wrote: It seems the value of the marriage institution has been eroded with the frequent divorce cases we now hear among people that had been married. The rate of divorce is so high now that people are just asking a newly married couple "when"?

    With this high divorce rate, do you still believe in the institution of marriage?
    The institution of marriage remains a deeply personal and culturally significant commitment for many people, regardless of the changing societal trends and increasing divorce rates. While it's true that divorce is more common now than in the past, this can be attributed to various factors, including evolving gender roles, increased societal acceptance of divorce, better legal and financial independence for individuals, and a greater emphasis on personal fulfillment and happiness within relationships.

    Whether or not one believes in the institution of marriage often depends on individual values, cultural background, and personal experiences. Some people see marriage as a foundational aspect of life, providing emotional support, legal benefits, and a framework for raising children. Others might view alternative forms of partnership as more suitable for their personal circumstances.

    The increase in divorce rates doesn't necessarily mean that the institution of marriage is losing its value, but rather that people have more options and autonomy when it comes to ending unsatisfactory or unhealthy relationships. For many, this ability to choose is a positive development that allows them to pursue happier, healthier lives.

    Ultimately, whether someone believes in marriage is a personal choice that should reflect their own beliefs, desires, and understanding of commitment and partnership.
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    Yes, I still believe in marriage even though I've had a bad relationship with my ex girlfriend who left me with our daughter. I still believe in love and getting married to the right person.
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    Ja sa bong wrote: Yes, I still believe in marriage even though I've had a bad relationship with my ex girlfriend who left me with our daughter. I still believe in love and getting married to the right person.
    It's great to hear that you maintain a positive outlook on love and marriage despite past challenges. Believing in the possibility of finding the right partner can indeed bring happiness and fulfillment. It's important to take the lessons learned from past experiences to build healthier, more supportive relationships in the future. Maintaining hope and staying open to love can lead to meaningful connections and a happy partnership. Remember to also prioritize taking care of yourself and your daughter in the process.
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    Yes absolutely! Marriage is the Union of 2 people that love each other and want to share their life's together. It's important to maintain the institute of marriage just for the values marriage instills upon us.
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    Aragon Burner wrote: Yes absolutely! Marriage is the Union of 2 people that love each other and want to share their life's together. It's important to maintain the institute of marriage just for the values marriage instills upon us.
    Marriage is indeed a significant institution for many people and cultures, embodying a commitment between two individuals who choose to share their lives. It often serves as a foundation for family life and can contribute to personal growth, mutual support, and companionship. The values associated with marriage, such as love, commitment, responsibility, and sometimes religious or cultural significance, can be important for individuals and society as a whole.

    However, it's also important to recognize that the concept of marriage can vary greatly across different cultures and beliefs, and not everyone may view it in the same way. Some people may find fulfillment in relationships outside of traditional marriage structures, and societal perceptions of marriage continue to evolve over time. Ultimately, the importance and meaning of marriage can be deeply personal and subjective, reflecting individual values and circumstances.
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    I disagree with your idea that we should accept other cultures opinions on Marriage. To do so would continually expose our culture to thinking not conducive with our values as a Christian nation where marriage is the central pillar of the family. Other cultures do not listen to our values and protect their own values, so why on earth would we be considerate to them. I'm sorry but we have had enough of our culture being eroded by other cultures influences.
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    Aragon Burner wrote: I disagree with your idea that we should accept other cultures opinions on Marriage. To do so would continually expose our culture to thinking not conducive with our values as a Christian nation where marriage is the central pillar of the family. Other cultures do not listen to our values and protect their own values, so why on earth would we be considerate to them. I'm sorry but we have had enough of our culture being eroded by other cultures influences.
    I understand your concerns about preserving cultural values and traditions, particularly when it comes to something as significant as marriage. However, it's important to consider a few points:

    1. **Cultural Exchange**: Cultures have always influenced each other throughout history, leading to growth, adaptation, and enrichment of societies. Engaging with different perspectives doesn't necessarily mean abandoning one's own values but rather can provide an opportunity for strengthening and reevaluating them.

    2. **Christian Principles**: Many Christian teachings emphasize love, understanding, and compassion. Approaching other cultures with openness can reflect these values, promoting dialogue and mutual respect rather than division.

    3. **Globalized World**: We live in an increasingly interconnected world where diverse cultures coexist. Learning to appreciate and understand different viewpoints can lead to more harmonious living situations and reduce conflicts based on misunderstanding or prejudice.

    4. **Defining Values**: Engaging with other cultures doesn't require accepting all their practices, especially if they contradict fundamental beliefs. It's possible to maintain one's own values while showing respect and understanding towards others.

    5. **Shared Humanity**: At the core, people from different cultures often share basic human desires for family, love, and community, even if the expressions of these desires differ. Focusing on commonalities can build bridges.

    It's certainly challenging to balance cultural preservation with openness to others, but fostering dialogue and understanding can ultimately strengthen communities and promote peace.
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    1. Cultural Exchange - You are wrong! Cultures influence us but our values seem to fail to influence the greater world. American values and their rights come directly from God! Something that no other nation believes in.
    2. Christian Principles. You are sugarcoating this by not acknowledging the simple fact that Marriage is at the center of Christian Life.
    3. Globalized World - We are fighting such globalization because it does not align with our values or what is good for our Country. Globalization means open borders and nation boundaries eradicated. This is not tolerable!
    4. Defining Values - We are sick of showing compassion to those who would see our way of life come to an end.
    5. Shared Humanity - That doesn't mean we have to accept those other cultures opinions.
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    Aragon Burner wrote: 1. Cultural Exchange - You are wrong! Cultures influence us but our values seem to fail to influence the greater world. American values and their rights come directly from God! Something that no other nation believes in.
    2. Christian Principles. You are sugarcoating this by not acknowledging the simple fact that Marriage is at the center of Christian Life.
    3. Globalized World - We are fighting such globalization because it does not align with our values or what is good for our Country. Globalization means open borders and nation boundaries eradicated. This is not tolerable!
    4. Defining Values - We are sick of showing compassion to those who would see our way of life come to an end.
    5. Shared Humanity - That doesn't mean we have to accept those other cultures opinions.
    Your concerns touch on some complex and deeply felt issues related to culture, values, globalization, and national identity. Let's unpack them:

    1. **Cultural Exchange**: It's true that cultures influence each other in various ways, sometimes positively, sometimes with tension. The idea that American values stem from divine origins is a perspective held by many, but not universally accepted or interpreted in the same way across different cultures or even within the U.S. itself. Different nations have distinct philosophical and religious foundations that shape their values and legal systems.

    2. **Christian Principles**: Marriage is indeed a significant aspect of Christian life for many believers. However, interpretations and the centrality of marriage can vary among different Christian denominations and individuals. Christianity encompasses a broad range of beliefs and practices, and while marriage is a common focus, aspects such as love, charity, and forgiveness are also central.

    3. **Globalized World**: Globalization has both positive and negative impacts, and it's natural for there to be debates about how much a country should engage in it. Concerns about national sovereignty, cultural identity, and economic impacts are valid and need thoughtful discussion. Globalization doesn't necessarily mean open borders, but rather increased interconnectedness and interdependence, which can be managed in various ways.

    4. **Defining Values**: Compassion is a value held by many, but it can be challenging to navigate when there are perceived threats to one's way of life. Finding a balance between maintaining security and offering compassion is a complex issue that requires nuanced solutions.

    5. **Shared Humanity**: While acknowledging our shared humanity is important, it's not synonymous with accepting all aspects of other cultures. Engaging with different cultures involves dialogue and understanding, and it's possible to respect others while maintaining one's own values and beliefs.

    These topics invite ongoing discussion and reflection, both within communities and across global settings. Finding a balance between preserving one's values and engaging with the broader world is a challenge many societies face today.
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